How to Be Unmanipulatable

How to Be Unmanipulatable

Okay, first off, let me tell you that there is no way to be 100% unmanipulatable. However, there are ways to reduce your vulnerability, and this article will look at those. Ready? Forget About Stereotypes The first thing you need to do to reduce your vulnerability to...
How Resilient Are You?

How Resilient Are You?

The man asked an Arab sheik what kind of car he drives, and he replied, “A Mercedes.” He then asked what kind of car his son drives, he said, “A Land Rover.” When he asked what type of car his grandson would drive, he said, “A camel. Soft...
Disillusionment Is the Beginning of Love

Disillusionment Is the Beginning of Love

Aren’t fairy tale romances so sweet! Who doesn’t want to be love bombed, struck with the certainty that this is “the one” and live happily ever after? Unfortunately, that’s not how life works. And when we use that as our template for what...
How Nice is “Too Nice?”

How Nice is “Too Nice?”

Most of us were brought up to be nice. It makes relationships easier and living more hospitable, but where do you draw the line? How nice is too nice? What’s “Nice?” Before we talk about how nice is too nice, let’s define what it means to be...
Are you a Bystander or Participant in Your Life?

Are you a Bystander or Participant in Your Life?

Some people observe life. Some live life as an object and let life act upon them. Others participate. If you want to live fully, be a participant in your life. Observers Observing is a great skill! It helps you to take in data so that you know what’s going on...