Is this Sexual Activity Okay?

If a topic appears on my blog, it’s almost always because it is about something I’ve seen repeatedly, said repeatedly, or been asked about repeatedly. With sex becoming more and more casual, there is a lot more grey area about what is and what isn’t appropriate. I hope that this article clears some of that […]

Arousal, Orgasm, and Rape

Psst! I have a confession to make that I think everyone needs to hear. I am really embarrassed to admit that I worked as a domestic violence advocate and rape crisis counselor for a while without knowing that a rape survivor could experience arousal and orgasm. Yep! That was shamefully left out of my training. […]

Making Sense of Sex Dreams

If you want to get someone’s attention, throw in some sex. Salespeople know this. Authors know this. The media knows this. Your subconscious even knows this. That is why the same people who dismiss their dreams suddenly sit up and start asking questions when they start having sex dreams. So, what does it all mean? First […]