The Six Facets of Connection

There are many ways to feel a connection with someone. We live in a culture where we can think that feeling a spark means that romantic feelings or sex is the natural next step. Attraction doesn’t have to be sexual. Before you go down that road, you might want to explore the six facets of […]

Working Through Relationship Stages

All romantic relationships go through predictable cycles. If you understand what they are, you can more easily let go of the ones that aren’t in your best interest. You can work through those that you want to hold on to. So, let’s take a look at these relationship stages. Question Mark The question is, “What […]

Master and Servant

One of the biggest issues I see with couples is the power inequality.┬áThere are actually four different types of power dynamics in relationships: servant/servant; master/master; master/servant; and equal partners. Only two of them are balanced. Only one of them is healthy. Servant/Servant This is the least common. Probably because it’s not sustainable. In this relationship, […]

Seven Soul Mate Myths to Discard

One of the most damaging concepts to love is the idea of soul mates. The popular idea is that there is one person out there who is made just for you who will make your life complete. If you are wondering if you are going to meet your soul mate, let me put your mind […]

The Life Cycle of An Affair

Affairs don’t just happen. They have a predictable life cycle. It’s fairly consistent from one couple to the next. If you can understand it, you may be able to see it coming and prevent it. Or, if you are already in it, you may be able to see your way out. Curious about the life […]