No Pedestals

A great rule of thumb for relationships of all kinds is “no pedestals.” Venus is in retrograde and many relationships are undergoing transformation. Some are coming together. Some are coming apart. Others are reuniting. If yours is undergoing reconstruction and you have a pedestal in place, why not smash it now? The pedestal is often […]

Are You a Good Lover?

Are you a good lover? I am talking Lover, like the Archetype, not asking about your physical prowess! What’s an archetypal Lover? Well, we all have our personal unconscious that is made up of our personal experiences. Our behavior is governed by the meaning we make from these experiences. We are also influenced by the collective […]

What Women Want

Hey, guys. If you want to know what women want, it’s really very simple. You don’t have to be a Casanova or smooth operator. Anyone can do it. Everything you need is right here: Love Her Fiercely Your lady wants to know that she’s the one and only woman for you. She wants to know […]

Why the Love of Your Life Isn’t Finding You

Want to know why the love of your life isn’t finding you? Have you ever heard that cliche`”It’s not you, it’s me”. Well, that applies in this case. Hear me out. Have you ever seen these people who have no problem attracting a lot of nice looking, stable people with great personalities? How do they […]

If You Want More, Create Space

The universe is mostly made up of what we see as empty space. Atoms and cells are also mostly empty space. This is part of the universal design. Universal law says “As above, so below.” So, why do we humans go against the grain and do everything we can to fill up that space? If […]

Don’t Be a Santa Claus Lover

Are you a Santa Claus lover? What I mean is, do you love like Santa Claus. Santa is a jolly, lovable role model, don’t you think? He gives toys to kids and spreads holiday cheer. But have you ever thought about what this teaches little ones about love? Think about this. He watches your every […]

Six Tips on How to Handle Valentine’s Day Pressure

We’re approaching another holiday – Valentine’s Day. This one can be loaded with lots of stress. If Valentine’s Day has typically been a day of disappointment for you, read on. Here are six tips for how to handle the Valentine’s Day pressure. Appreciate Where You Are The circle of life applies to all things. There are […]

Loving People Who Are Hard to Love

If you read a lot of my blog posts, you see a lot of “Let it go,” “You gotta have healthy boundaries,” and “You’re responsible for what shows up in your life” types of posts. It may give the impression that if something or someone isn’t working for you, it’s time to cut it loose. Before […]

Three Keys to Wholeness: Love, Service, and Wisdom

People have been searching for wholeness for a long time. In recent years the trends for finding it have been through rebellion, escaping through drugs and alcohol, pursuing success (buying things and gaining titles), and living your passion. The key has never been, and never will be, somewhere out there. It’s always inside. You don’t […]

What Does “I Don’t Like You, but I Love You” Mean?

What does it mean when someone says, “I don’t like you, but I love you?” It might seem like love can’t really happen without liking someone, but it does. How? Relationships can be complicated. You’ve got two moving parts (people) who aren’t necessarily moving at the same speed or in the same direction all the […]