Your Vibe Attracts Your Tribe

If you are looking around and seeing things in your life that you just don’t like, it’s time to take responsibility. Your vibe attracts your tribe. This means that things that resonate at the same frequency are found together. When two similar things are in proximity, the vibration of the weaker follows the vibration of the […]

Be Willing to Be Wrong

We live in a culture that is obsessed with winning. Being number one is a high pressure game. Who remembers who got the silver medal? It’s either win or die! But what if you were willing to be second? What would happen if you were willing to be wrong? Actually a whole lot of good […]

Four Stages of Learning

Noel Burch identified the four stages of learning in the 1970s. Knowing these stages can really help you make accurate assessments of your own level of skill. They can also help you see areas that need improvement. Before I get into that, let’s look at the stages of learning. Unconscious Incompetence  – this is the “ignorance […]

Five Ways to Deal with the Meantime

What do you do when you’re in the meantime? What’s the meantime? It’s that space between becoming and being. It’s the difference between where we are and where we want to be. Here are some examples: working at a job you hate while waiting for something else being a student instead of a professional that […]

The Three Stages of Growth

There are three stages of growth. If you do the right tasks at the right time, you will progress much faster. They are: crisis, working, and maintenance. Crisis Crisis is when problems exceed your skills to deal with them. This could be emotional, such as when you are crying about something and just can’t stop. […]

Make Your Weaknesses Your Strengths

Weakness and strength are opposite sides of the same coin. They are a matter of perspective and application. If you are feeling bogged down by your “challenges,” it’s time to see that you can make your weaknesses your strengths. Here is what I mean. First you have to understand what your strengths and weaknesses are. […]

The Truth About Personal Growth

The thing about embarking on a journey of personal growth is that it’s not all roses and ice cream. At the outset it sounds great. You’ve got all these wonderful plans and big dreams. In reality, you will be called upon to let go of things that have become comfortable in order to allow space […]