Why You Should Mind Your Own Business

Why You Should Mind Your Own Business

Want to improve your life, your relationships, and your boundaries? You can do that by making just one radical change – minding your own business. Life’s tough enough just carrying your own load. When you take on other people’s worries, battles, and...
How to “Take Responsibility For What’s Yours”

How to “Take Responsibility For What’s Yours”

In my previous post, I said that one way to reduce relationship friction is to take responsibility for what’s yours. This is a part of having great boundaries and being effective. But what does this look like exactly? “Taking responsibility” means...

Loving People Who Are Hard to Love

If you read a lot of my blog posts, you see a lot of “Let it go,” “You gotta have healthy boundaries,” and “You’re responsible for what shows up in your life” types of posts. It may give the impression that if something or someone isn’t working for you, it’s time to...

Why It Pays to Be Choosey – Really Choosey!

If you live in the developed world, you’re unimaginably lucky. You can probably get something to eat at any hour of the day. You can eat Mexican food for lunch and Ethiopian for dinner. If you want neon markers, nine inch nails, or an antique lamp, you can probably...