No Pedestals

A great rule of thumb for relationships of all kinds is “no pedestals.” Venus is in retrograde and many relationships are undergoing transformation. Some are coming together. Some are coming apart. Others are reuniting. If yours is undergoing reconstruction and you have a pedestal in place, why not smash it now? The pedestal is often […]

Learn From Your Mistakes Before You Make Them

Wouldn’t it be cool if you could learn from your mistakes before you make them? That’s what Viktor Frankl suggests in a quote from his book, Man’s Search for Meaning. He says, “Live as if you were living already for the second time and as if you had acted the first time as wrongly as you […]

Let Yourself Be Surprised

There are a lot of people out there who just want to know everything. They want to be prepared for everything. They want what they want and won’t consider any other options. If you are one of them, I urge you to let yourself be surprised! Imagine waking up in a world where a little […]

Are You a Good Lover?

Are you a good lover? I am talking Lover, like the Archetype, not asking about your physical prowess! What’s an archetypal Lover? Well, we all have our personal unconscious that is made up of our personal experiences. Our behavior is governed by the meaning we make from these experiences. We are also influenced by the collective […]

Breaking the Master, Servant, Hero Cycle

There are people who cast other people in one of three roles: master, servant, or hero. The master is the oppressor. He is  is essentially the bad guy who wants to tell you how to live. He dominates and takes from you so that he can have more or better things. The master is unsympathetic […]

Where Have All the Crones Gone?

The maiden, mother, crone is a useful, modern archetype that shows the cycle of feminine development. Girlhood is the period of innocence, discovery, youth, new beginnings, and enthusiasm. The maiden is springtime. Maidenhood lasts roughly from birth to the early twenties. The next phase is summer. It’s about fertility, growth, gaining knowledge, nurturing, and creativity. […]

What Women Want

Hey, guys. If you want to know what women want, it’s really very simple. You don’t have to be a Casanova or smooth operator. Anyone can do it. Everything you need is right here: Love Her Fiercely Your lady wants to know that she’s the one and only woman for you. She wants to know […]

If It Were My Dream…

Yesterday someone came up and asked me if I would listen to her dream and give her some “If it were my dream” feedback. I thought, “Hurrah!” When science and reason began to push the feminine, intuitive arts out of the window, dreams were no longer seen as important. Gone was the idea of using […]

Nine Things I Learned from Cuddle Parties

I host Cuddle Parties because I encounter a lot of people who can use safe touch. I have recommended going to a professional cuddlist who does one-on-one cuddling, but that is too scary for many people. Group cuddles are a great alternative. The idea might sound a bit weird, but here are nine things I […]

Why the Love of Your Life Isn’t Finding You

Want to know why the love of your life isn’t finding you? Have you ever heard that cliche`”It’s not you, it’s me”. Well, that applies in this case. Hear me out. Have you ever seen these people who have no problem attracting a lot of nice looking, stable people with great personalities? How do they […]