How to Stop Letting Others Wreck Your Day

Do other people wreck your day? Do you feel like if other people just got their stuff together, you would be fine? Is your day fine until you get around other people? If this sounds like you, this article is for you. Here is how to stop letting others wreck your day. It’s Not About You […]

Defeating Loneliness: How to Create Connection With Others

We often hear that a crowd is the loneliest place. There are a lot of lonely people out there who have other people in their lives. They just don’t feel connected to them. This is really an easy fix. Anyone can learn to create connection with others. Here are the steps to make it happen. […]

What Does a Real Man Look Like?

What does a real man look like? Guys can have a hard time trying to find a healthy role model. How does a guy practice to be a man when society has so many examples of hyper masculinity or femininity as the “standard” for a man? By “hyper masculine” I mean the men who show these […]

It Takes a Village

There is an African proverb that says, “It takes a village to raise a child.” I will go further and say that it takes a village to sustain a healthy human. We live in such an individualistic society. Day old babies live in a crib alone. We think that if a child doesn’t have a bed all […]

How To Make Dreams More Meaningful

It’s not enough to dream. If you want to use dreams to improve your life, you have to know how to record and interpret them. Here are some suggestions on how to make dreams more meaningful. Record them upon awakening If you wait to record your dreams, you may lose vital details. Get a loose […]

No Pedestals

A great rule of thumb for relationships of all kinds is “no pedestals.” Venus is in retrograde and many relationships are undergoing transformation. Some are coming together. Some are coming apart. Others are reuniting. If yours is undergoing reconstruction and you have a pedestal in place, why not smash it now? The pedestal is often […]

Learn From Your Mistakes Before You Make Them

Wouldn’t it be cool if you could learn from your mistakes before you make them? That’s what Viktor Frankl suggests in a quote from his book, Man’s Search for Meaning. He says, “Live as if you were living already for the second time and as if you had acted the first time as wrongly as you […]

Let Yourself Be Surprised

There are a lot of people out there who just want to know everything. They want to be prepared for everything. They want what they want and won’t consider any other options. If you are one of them, I urge you to let yourself be surprised! Imagine waking up in a world where a little […]

Are You a Good Lover?

Are you a good lover? I am talking Lover, like the Archetype, not asking about your physical prowess! What’s an archetypal Lover? Well, we all have our personal unconscious that is made up of our personal experiences. Our behavior is governed by the meaning we make from these experiences. We are also influenced by the collective […]

Breaking the Master, Servant, Hero Cycle

There are people who cast other people in one of three roles: master, servant, or hero. The master is the oppressor. He is  is essentially the bad guy who wants to tell you how to live. He dominates and takes from you so that he can have more or better things. The master is unsympathetic […]