Breaking the Master, Servant, Hero Cycle

There are people who cast other people in one of three roles: master, servant, or hero. The master is the oppressor. He is  is essentially the bad guy who wants to tell you how to live. He dominates and takes from you so that he can have more or better things. The master is unsympathetic […]

Where Have All the Crones Gone?

The maiden, mother, crone is a useful, modern archetype that shows the cycle of feminine development. Girlhood is the period of innocence, discovery, youth, new beginnings, and enthusiasm. The maiden is springtime. Maidenhood lasts roughly from birth to the early twenties. The next phase is summer. It’s about fertility, growth, gaining knowledge, nurturing, and creativity. […]

Nine Things I Learned from Cuddle Parties

I host Cuddle Parties because I encounter a lot of people who can use safe touch. I have recommended going to a professional cuddlist who does one-on-one cuddling, but that is too scary for many people. Group cuddles are a great alternative. The idea might sound a bit weird, but here are nine things I […]

Embrace Your Destiny

Everybody’s got tragedies. Everyone has greatness – some big and some small. Not all of us survive our tragedies as we can live our lives as victims. Not everyone reaches their greatness because we can get stuck in our stories. The way around this is to embrace your destiny. What’s your destiny? It’s whatever is […]

Ten Most Common Regrets

As everyone knows, I facilitate past life regressions so I hear a lot about mistakes and regret. It’s enough to motivate you to not make those same mistakes. If you are aware of the most common regrets while you are still vibrant and alive, you can make choices that will help you avoid the big […]

Three Things You Can’t Get Back

Life ebbs and flows. Things are always changing. In most cases, if you don’t do something today, the option will still be there tomorrow. When you make a mistake, you can usually go back and get a do over. So generally speaking, your decisions are not that critical. However, there are three things that you can’t […]

How to Fail At Therapy

Want to know how to fail at therapy? Read on! Imagine that you are piloting a boat. You are far from shore and hopelessly lost. Your boating skills are mediocre. Nobody knows where you are. No one is expecting you. And you have no life vests. Your friend gives you all sorts of suggestions to get […]

Embrace The Struggle

Probably every generation of parents desires for their kids to “have it better than we did.” They do things to reduce risk and create comfort. Even those kids who didn’t grow up with loving parents and comfortable situations had the benefit of sociological change that made things easier than it was for those who came […]

How to Get a Win/Win Solution Every Time

If you want your relationships to thrive, you have to be able to deal with conflict. Getting to a win/win solution always makes all parties happy because everyone gets what he wants. So how do you do that? Let’s take a look. Be Willing to Talk If one person is not willing to talk, you […]

If You Want More, Create Space

The universe is mostly made up of what we see as empty space. Atoms and cells are also mostly empty space. This is part of the universal design. Universal law says “As above, so below.” So, why do we humans go against the grain and do everything we can to fill up that space? If […]