No Pedestals

A great rule of thumb for relationships of all kinds is “no pedestals.” Venus is in retrograde and many relationships are undergoing transformation. Some are coming together. Some are coming apart. Others are reuniting. If yours is undergoing reconstruction and you have a pedestal in place, why not smash it now? The pedestal is often […]

Are You a Good Lover?

Are you a good lover? I am talking Lover, like the Archetype, not asking about your physical prowess! What’s an archetypal Lover? Well, we all have our personal unconscious that is made up of our personal experiences. Our behavior is governed by the meaning we make from these experiences. We are also influenced by the collective […]

Breaking the Master, Servant, Hero Cycle

There are people who cast other people in one of three roles: master, servant, or hero. The master is the oppressor. He is  is essentially the bad guy who wants to tell you how to live. He dominates and takes from you so that he can have more or better things. The master is unsympathetic […]

What Women Want

Hey, guys. If you want to know what women want, it’s really very simple. You don’t have to be a Casanova or smooth operator. Anyone can do it. Everything you need is right here: Love Her Fiercely Your lady wants to know that she’s the one and only woman for you. She wants to know […]

Why the Love of Your Life Isn’t Finding You

Want to know why the love of your life isn’t finding you? Have you ever heard that cliche`”It’s not you, it’s me”. Well, that applies in this case. Hear me out. Have you ever seen these people who have no problem attracting a lot of nice looking, stable people with great personalities? How do they […]

How to Get a Win/Win Solution Every Time

If you want your relationships to thrive, you have to be able to deal with conflict. Getting to a win/win solution always makes all parties happy because everyone gets what he wants. So how do you do that? Let’s take a look. Be Willing to Talk If one person is not willing to talk, you […]

Don’t Be a Santa Claus Lover

Are you a Santa Claus lover? What I mean is, do you love like Santa Claus. Santa is a jolly, lovable role model, don’t you think? He gives toys to kids and spreads holiday cheer. But have you ever thought about what this teaches little ones about love? Think about this. He watches your every […]

Six Tips on How to Handle Valentine’s Day Pressure

We’re approaching another holiday – Valentine’s Day. This one can be loaded with lots of stress. If Valentine’s Day has typically been a day of disappointment for you, read on. Here are six tips for how to handle the Valentine’s Day pressure. Appreciate Where You Are The circle of life applies to all things. There are […]

Be Consistent

Would you prefer to go to a restaurant with the same menu every time or one that changes daily? When you are in need, are you more likely to call on a friend who is always supportive or one who is only there for you sometimes? Would you rather be evaluated for work performance based […]

Working Through Relationship Stages

All romantic relationships go through predictable cycles. If you understand what they are, you can more easily let go of the ones that aren’t in your best interest. You can work through those that you want to hold on to. So, let’s take a look at these relationship stages. Question Mark The question is, “What […]