When You Can’t “Just Get Over It”

Resilience. We all have it to some degree. Sometimes it’s easy to bounce back. We’ve all seen it. We’ve probably all experienced it. This can make some people believe that not bouncing back is simply a matter of will. It is not. So, how do you tell the difference when you are just being willful […]

Make Your Weaknesses Your Strengths

Weakness and strength are opposite sides of the same coin. They are a matter of perspective and application. If you are feeling bogged down by your “challenges,” it’s time to see that you can make your weaknesses your strengths. Here is what I mean. First you have to understand what your strengths and weaknesses are. […]

Be Still

Do have questions? Do you want answers? Stop. Be still. The answers you seek are right in front of you. You just have to learn to sense them. The first step is to be still. Still your eyes. We spend a lot of time hiding from the things that we don’t want to see that we […]

Your Purpose Revealed

Christmas has passed. We’ve had a month of parties, eating, family, and over indulging. Now many people’s attention have turned to getting their life back in shape. They are thinking about shaping up their bodies, their finances, their relationships, and putting right all the things that have escaped them so that the new year is […]

What You Want is Not For Sale

We live in a society where everything is a commodity. The belief is that everything can be bought for a price. Cars, homes, land, beauty, salvation, friendships, education, spirituality, happiness, and even love. In fact, we judge others by how well they are able to acquire the things they want. The truth is, what you want […]

How to Become Less Judgmental

It’s normal to be judgmental. It’s a function of how the brain works. It’s how we make sense of reality. We see a thing and compare it to other known things. Is it small, big, familiar, strange, pleasant, or unpleasant? Verbalizing that is an extension of our thought process. However, making negative judgments – whether […]

Work With The Universal Laws to Create Harmony

Lots of people use control as a means of staving off fear. We might get a degree to reduce the fear of poverty. We might get married to avoid the fear of loneliness. We might verbally attack someone to avoid the fear of them hurting us. It’s an effective short term strategy. However, being driven […]

How to Beat the Holiday Blues

With Christmas only a week away, the holiday rush is in full swing. For some this means running around buying things that they can’t afford. It could mean packing in activities in an already over scheduled calendar. Some eat too much of the wrong things. Some drink too much. Some get overwhelmed with regret of […]

How To Say What You Need to Say

There are lots of reasons why some people don’t know how to say what they need to say. Sometimes it comes from fear of rejection. Sometimes it is about not knowing what to say. Sometimes it’s fear that the words will be misconstrued and things will be even worse. Staying silent almost always comes down […]